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Yoga Is Not Pilates — and Why the Difference Matters
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Yoga Is Not Pilates — and Why the Difference Matters

Yoga and Pilates are often spoken about as though they are interchangeable, but their purpose and deeper psychology are very different. This post reflects on yoga as more than physical exercise — a whole-being practice that uses the body, breath and mind as doorways into awareness, integration and Self-knowledge.

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Ahiṃsā: The Practice Begins With You
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Ahiṃsā: The Practice Begins With You

Ahiṃsā is often translated as non-violence, but the teaching is much more intimate than that. It begins with how we relate to ourselves, how we speak to ourselves, and how we practise both on and off the mat.

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Does the End Justify the Means?
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Does the End Justify the Means?

The yogic texts repeatedly return us to this insight. The process is not separate from the outcome. In the Bhagavad Gītā, we are reminded:

“You have a right to action alone, never to its fruits.

Let not the fruits of action be your motive, nor let your attachment be to inaction.”

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Lost in the Spiritual Woods
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Lost in the Spiritual Woods

There is a phrase we often hear: all roads lead to Rome.
It is usually offered as a comfort, a way of saying that all spiritual paths are equally valid and that there is no need to choose.

And in one sense, this is true. Many sincere traditions point toward the same truth. Many languages speak of the same mystery.

Yet there is another, quieter truth.

No one arrives anywhere by standing at the crossroads. We all know the benefit of using a map and having a guide for the journey.

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You can’t expect apples from a mango seed
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You can’t expect apples from a mango seed

You can’t expect apples from a mango seed.

A mango seed will never grow into an apple tree.

Everything the mango tree will ever become already exists within the seed — its nature, its form, its fruit. In the same way, everything required for you to become you already lives within you.

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Myth, Not Fiction – Coming Home to Self
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Myth, Not Fiction – Coming Home to Self

As eight women journey through Sri Lanka, I reflect on the Ramayana – a story woven through my childhood that still whispers of devotion, myth, and the journey home to the Self.

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My Name is Not Anxious: Psychology and Yoga in Dialogue
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My Name is Not Anxious: Psychology and Yoga in Dialogue

“I am anxious” is something we often say. But anxiety is something you experience, it is not who you are. This journey helps you reclaim your identity, remember the deeper Self, and live with greater calm, steadiness & freedom.

Anxiety is one of the most common challenges of our time. It hijacks the nervous system, narrows the window of tolerance, and clouds our sense of who we really are. This course offers a pathway back to balance — combining practical tools from psychology with the timeless wisdom of Yoga and Vedanta. This is more than a course. It is a journey into practical wisdom and Self-awareness, where knowledge and embodied practice come together to create lasting change.

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